Depression affects millions of Pakistanis, yet remains widely misunderstood. Here is what you need to know — and what actually helps.
Ayesha Khan✓
Clinical Psychologist — Depression & Mood Disorders (MSc)
Depression is one of the most common mental health conditions in Pakistan, yet it is also one of the most misunderstood. Many people suffering from it are told to pray more, think positively, or simply push through. While faith and resilience are genuinely valuable, they are not substitutes for understanding what depression is and how to treat it effectively.
Depression is not sadness. It is a medical condition that affects how the brain functions — particularly the systems that regulate mood, motivation, sleep, appetite, and the ability to experience pleasure.
Key symptoms include:
- Persistent low mood or emptiness lasting more than two weeks
- Loss of interest in activities that previously brought joy
- Changes in sleep and appetite
- Fatigue that does not resolve with rest
- Difficulty concentrating or making decisions
- Feelings of worthlessness or excessive guilt
- In severe cases, thoughts of self-harm or suicide
In our cultural context, depression is often expressed through physical symptoms rather than emotional ones — headaches, body pain, digestive issues, and fatigue. This is known as somatic presentation and is common in many South Asian contexts.
Additionally, the social stigma around mental illness means many people either do not seek help or seek it very late, when symptoms are significantly more severe.
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) has the strongest evidence base for depression. It helps clients identify and change the thought patterns and behaviours that maintain low mood.
Behavioural Activation — a core component of CBT — involves gradually reintroducing meaningful activity into daily life. This sounds simple but is profoundly effective.
Medication can also play a role, particularly in moderate to severe depression, and works best in combination with therapy.
If you are reading this and recognising yourself or someone you love — please do not wait for things to get worse before seeking help. Depression responds to treatment. Recovery is possible, and it is more common than you might think.
About the author
Clinical Psychologist — Depression & Mood Disorders (MSc)
Helping individuals break through depression and reconnect with purpose and joy.